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      <image:caption>Heather Sande on the CHCH Morning Show, July 19 2023</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Reading The Goblet of Fire for the third time to my daughter as part of our bedtime routine.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The first love note heart - well used and loved.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Taking over the chalkboard to get my thoughts out of my head and into the world.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Just hanging out listening to Fluttercup the Unicorn sing us to sleep. Bonus of having my phone in bed - sleepy selfies.</image:caption>
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